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Showing posts with label prayer. Show all posts
Showing posts with label prayer. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

A Prayer for Any One, Any Day

I want to share with you my favorite prayer. Even if you normally don't pray, keep reading. This prayer is non-denominational, and doesn't mention anything relating to G0d or religion until the last line, and you can leave that off if you want. I found this prayer in the Reform Jewish prayer book, Mishkan T'filah.It is normally read on Shabbat (Sabbath), but other than the last line, can be read any day. It was written by Rami Shapiro, and originally was published by the Reconstructionist Press in Kol Haneshama.

May these hours of rest and renewal
open our hearts to joy and our minds to truth.
May all who struggle find rest on this day.
May all who suffer find solace.
May all who hurt find healing on this day.
May all who despair find purpose.
May all who hunger find fulfillment on this day.
And may this day fulfill its promise.
Baruch atah Adonai, m'kadeish HaShabbat.
(Praise to You, Adonai our G0d, who sanctifies the Sabbath.)

I often can feel my attention and intention increase while reading this prayer, as compared to other prayers we read during the typical Shabbat service. I think that is because all too often, I can fit myself into one or more of these categories, and I am seeking healing.
For myself and for everyone, I pray for rest, solace, healing, purpose and fulfillment, today and every day.
Amen

Monday, June 11, 2012

Prayer for Healing

Prayer can be a powerful force*.  I have heard about studies that show people improve when others are praying for them, even if they don't know about the pray-ers. On the other hand, we all know of people who have gotten worse, or even died, despite being prayed for. I am not going to attempt to define prayer, that is way beyond the scope of my expertise. To me, though, prayer is more about trust in the process, than that any specific outcome will occur. If prayer had a direct, 1:1 cause and effect with outcome, none of us would have chronic pain or illness. Our prayers to "make it go away" would have done just that, and we would have been cured.  Prayer, then, must have some other purpose.
I would not describe myself as religious, but we do attend Sabbath services at our temple every Friday night, and a shorter service and Torah study session every Saturday morning. One part of these services I find especially meaningful is a prayer for healing. Before we sing this prayer, our Rabbi asks for any names of people we would like to have the congregation pray for. A few times, when I have had a specific issue going on, my husband has mentioned my name. Otherwise, I add my name silently. Many people know I have chronic pain and illness issues, but I don't want to draw attention to myself every week.  A good friend has prostate cancer, and also does not want to draw attention to himself. When our Rabbi asks for names, he and I will make eye contact, and incline our heads towards each other, in this way adding each other's names to the list without doing so publicly. Or, if we are sitting near each other, we may gently and unobtrusively tap each other on the arm or leg. Another friend recently started having some major health issues, and we quietly have added her to our little 'prayer circle', though I am not sure she knows this.
I have found this intimate acknowledgement of the need for healing to be very powerful. I wrote a piece last year on the difference between healing and curing.  Those of us with chronic illness may never be cured, ie, our illnesses go away, but we can still heal, ie, be more at peace with our illness, and in that way, live better with it. I have some symptoms that never go away, others that may be with me for days or weeks or months, and by the time they dissipate, others have taken their place. (My body is an ever-changing source of amusement.) The prayer for healing reminds me that I am not alone in this journey. I have companions and supports, human and otherwise. That knowledge alone helps me get through the tough times, and meanwhile, the prayer is out there in the Universe, working its good.  

*Disclaimer: religion is very personal. My beliefs are my own, and I have no intention of convincing anyone to believe as I do. If I have unintentionally offended anyone by my thoughts shared here, I am sorry. That also was not my intent.